Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Jake Goldbas: Master's Recital

This past Sunday Jake gave his Master's Degree Recital at Manhattan School of Music. It's crazy how quickly the last two years have flown by us and in just one month he will be graduating. What?! Yes! Also, it must be said: I have such a crush on this husband of mine. His charisma, on and off stage, is infectious. His passion for the music he plays is both heard and felt.

The recital was two sets consisting of nine extremely talented musicians. 

My two favorite tunes of the afternoon were: First Set's Trio rendition of Never Will I Marry - by Frank Loesser. Jake and I have listened to the Nancy Wilson & Cannonball Adderley 1961 recording of this tune probably hundreds of times. And the Second Set's Quintet rendition of Polka Dots & Moonbeams, with Jake's swirling brush work. I'm a serious sucker for the brushes.

^^First Set: Trio^^
Roy Assaf
Raviv Markovitz

^^Second Set: Quintet^^
Emmet Cohen: Piano
Sam Anning: Bass
Jonathan Ragonese: Tenor Saxophone
Christian Rivera: Congas
special guest, Steve Wilson: Alto Saxophone

^^The incomparable, Steve Wilson^^
^^Jake and teacher, John Riley^^
^^The Meech & Jake^^

Monday, April 8, 2013

Wedding: The Programs

After creating all our invitation pockets I had hundreds of pages of sheet music left over. I couldn't just throw them out... I was too inspired by the beautiful scripted notes on the scores, the swoop of the treble clefs, the creamy and ivory tones of the aged paper and the lyrics that sweep under the melody line. 

I knew then, looking at the box of discarded scraps, that this music would be incorporated into all of the paper products we needed for our wedding. From the programs and menus, to the place-cards and donation cards. Here is a peak at the finished product - look forward to a DIY Wedding: The Programs post soon. And in case you missed it: here is our DIY Wedding: How to make a Vintage Sheet Music pocket!


**all photography by little k**

Sunday, April 7, 2013

The best wedding planning advice I ever received.

A few weeks after Jake and I returned from our big engagement trip in Italy questions started flying around... Where will you get married? Who will perform the ceremony? Have you picked a date? What is your theme? Have you gone dress shopping? etc...

At first the questions were welcomed and I was excited to babble on about my thoughts and inspiration and dreams, but quickly those first few weeks turned into a month and it became obvious that those questions needed real answers.

I started to feel... overwhelmed.


I had been planning my wedding since I was a little girl. The only problem was my "dream wedding" changed as quickly as the seasons. I imagined various scenarios - white dress and a small chapel, on the beach in Fiji, in my hometown, on a plantation in the south (during my Gone With the Wind phase), and the list goes on. I had dreamed about autumn weddings with apple cider and the changing leaves to summer weddings with paper lanterns strung from the trees and a cotton candy machine near-by. I had dreamt of eloping to a romantic Italian town with just our families around us.
You name it and I had thought of it.

I started to feel even more... overwhelmed.

I paged through the dozens of wedding magazines I had collected over the years for guidance and I only became more confused. I started to panic. I couldn't decide! What kind of bride am I?!

Then one afternoon while on the phone with my dearest friend Emily, she asked me one simple question that changed everything...

 "What do you want people to leave your wedding knowing about you and Jake as a couple?" 

So I paused and I thought, for just a moment, and I said "That we are passionate musicians. I want them to leave our wedding thinking they've never heard music like that before!" And with that one simple answer everything fell into place.



Hundreds of sheets of vintage music, a New York City venue and a 20-piece orchestra later, we had us a damn fine wedding. SO - to all my future brides out there, take this question to heart, think about it and go with your gut! Oh, and good luck!

Saturday, April 6, 2013

DIY Wedding: How to make a Vintage Sheet Music pocket!

Ever since we mailed our invitations out back in January I've had quite a few requests from friends and brides-to-be asking how I made the Vintage Sheet Music Pockets that held our invitation suite. So... here we go!

^^Step 1. Gather your supplies and tools.^^
Paper supplies: I decided to make our pockets out of vintage sheet music, but you could choose anything from wrapping paper or newspaper, to magazines or maps! (ooo maps!) Go with what inspires  you most and compliments the theme of your wedding. 

Tools: A good pencil, an acid free glue stick, sharp scissors, scotch tape and a paper cutter. 
I used this Martha Stewart 12-Inch Simple Paper Trimmer because its' compact size is NYC apartment friendly!

^^Step 2: Choose your template.^^
Back in December I spent (more than) a few hours in Paper Presentation scouring their envelopes and pocket templates before I came across this one. I experimented with a couple variations, but in the end this format looked sharp and was the easiest to trace and cut.

**very important - make sure your invitation pocket fits into your outer envelope before you decide on final template!**

^^Step 3: Trace & Cut.^^
Because we will be using the title of the sheet music as the belly band, make sure to leave space at the top when you are tracing your pocket template. **This is only vintage music template specific** Trace lightly and try to position the template over the illustration in an aesthetically pleasing fashion.

I found it was most efficient to free-hand cut the templates out rather than using the paper cutter. Don't worry about cutting in perfectly straight lines once the pocket is folded you won't notice these small imperfections!

^^Step 4: Cut the belly band.^^
Keep the cover of the sheet music folded in half when you are cutting the title. You will need all the length to be able to wrap it around the pocket. I often had to do minor repair work at the crease of the sheet music with a bit of scotch tape. Make sure your paper is lined up and held securely in place before sliding the blade down the paper cutter. 

^^Now you have a invitation pocket and belly band!^^

^^An advantage to using vintage sheet music was having the inside as well as the outside tell a story. Sometimes it was the musical score, sometimes lyrics or sometimes more illustrations. The lyrics to this song were particularly adorable to me...^^

^^Step 5: Fold your pocket.^^
Place your template on top of the newly cut pocket, line up the corner and edges, and using your original template as a guide - bend and fold!

^^Step 6: Glue your belly band.^^
Fold your title strip of paper around your freshly folded pocket, line up the title and glue the paper to form a belly band that can slip on and off the pocket. The belly band looks fantastic and it holds the pocket flaps in place!

^^Step 7: Stuff your invitation suite into your pocket and slide belly band into place!^^

^^Sit back, admire your work and then - repeat!^^

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Hair cut?

When Jake and I first started dating I chopped off my hair and even rocked some blunt, thick bangs a la Anne Hathaway in Devil Wears Prada.  I even wrote a post about it on Apartment 10... Jake's reaction? He said he missed my little forehead. Ha.

^^November 2008 - Thanksgiving in Utica^^

For the past four-ish years I've been growing out my hair. It wasn't really a mission per se, I just always loved having long hair and my hair grows fast and well, great hair cuts in New York are ridiculously expensive!! Although I won't be getting bangs again, I have been toying around with the idea of cutting my hair. But, I'm scared.

^^March 2013 - Riviera Maya on Honeymoon^^

A few of my favorite things, as of lately...

Recently, with spring officially here I can't get enough of fresh flowers, bright colors and anything that makes me feel buoyant. 
Every day feels like a celebration and I'm embracing it. 
Join me?

^^White roses^^

^^Colorful tulips^^


^^Nanny's gold silverware and VOLUSPA candles^^

^^Prosecco/Champagne^^

^^Paper Crowns (and nephews)^^

^^Colorful Balloons^^

^^This photo of my husband from our honeymoon & catching glimpses of his wedding band. Hot.^^

^^Smooching wedding shots^^

^^Mornings spent at the Metropolitan Museum of Art^^

^^This book and these shoes^^



Monday, April 1, 2013

Five years of lovin'

In 2008 on April Fools Eve... which eventually turned into April Fools Morn, Jake and I decided to become "official" and "exclusive". Those are some big words for two college kids who met over lentil soup.

Five years, three apartments, dozens of holidays, a trip to Italy, a sparkly engagement ring & party, two (almost three) degrees from MSM, a New York Times covered wedding and one honeymoon later here we are! Mr. & Mrs. Goldbas. And I couldn't be happier. Married to my best friend, my love and the man who continually challenges me to be a better version of myself daily - and a fantastic kisser to boot!

Although we now have a new anniversary, April 1st will always be a special day for us. It marks the beginning of our journey from girlfriend and boyfriend to husband and wife.


        Happy Five Years of lovin' baby. I'm yours for like, ever.

        2008 -----------> 2013